ADVICE: Yes, you need a group portrait list. (But you don’t have to make it yourself!)
The best way (really, the only way) to make sure we get all the group (immediate family + wedding party) portraits you want on your wedding day is to make a list. Depending on your particular families, making this list can be a little stressful! That. Is. Normal. About 3-4 months prior to your date, I will send you a questionnaire that asks for the “who’s who” of your wedding day. Then, you have two options: make your own list or let me draft one for you so that you can review it.
WHEN SHOULD WE DO OUR GROUP PORTRAITS?
Right before the ceremony. Get all your group portraits out of the way before the ceremony, if you are seeing each other prior, and most of your family will be there by then.
Right after the ceremony. Get them done immediately after the ceremony, if you prefer not to see each other before, or if family won’t be there and assembled til this time.
For more info on wedding day scheduling, click here.
HOW LONG WILL THEY TAKE?
Done in one fell swoop, group photos take about 45-60 minutes. If you have a large group list and/or a big wedding party, plan for at least an hour. As soon as we’re done your families and wedding party can enjoy the rest of the day without interruption, which they will appreciate – trust me!
CAN WE DO EXTENDED FAMILY PHOTOS?
It is definitely possible to get portraits with extended families - but know that this can take a substantial chunk of time. So, here’s what I suggest:
- Only put “must have” shots on your list.
- Include any extended family shots on your group shot list so we can get them done during your scheduled time for photos.
- Eliminate any group shots that do not include you and or your partner – you both should be the focus of the day and your group portraits.
- Also know that I will be shooting the whole time in a candid, unobtrusive way, and I will capture many of your friends and family (maybe more than you will ever need or want lol).
GROUP PORTRAIT LIST TEMPLATE
Both Families
- A + B, All Parents, All Siblings (+ All Significant Others & Kids), All Grandparents
- A + B, All Parents, All Siblings, All Grandparents
- A + B, All Parents
Partner A’s Family
- Partner A + Partner B, A’s Parents, A’s Siblings (and Spouses, Kids), A’s Grandparents
- Partner A + Partner B, A’s Parents, A’s Siblings, A’s Grandparents
- Partner A + Partner B, A’s Parents
- Partner A + Parent 1
- Partner A + Parent 2
- Partner A + A’s Siblings
Partner B’s Family
- Partner A + Partner B, B’s Parents, B’s Siblings (+ All Significant Others & Kids), B’s Grandparents
- Partner A + Partner B, B’s Parents, B’s Siblings, B’s Grandparents
- Partner A + Partner B, B’s Parents
- Partner B + Parent 1
- Partner B + Parent 2
- Partner B + B’s Siblings
Wedding Party
- Partner A + Partner B, All Attendants
- Partner A + Partner B’s + All MAIN Attendants
- Partner A + A’s Attendants
- Partner A + A’s Main Attendant
- Partner B + B’s Attendants
- Parner B + B’s Main Attendant
NOTE: Your actual list should include first names + relationship to you of everyone in the photo.
